Jan spoke to the surgical assistant this morning and confirmed several things. The surgery is scheduled for Tuesday afternoon at 1. Because of the later surgery time, we will do pre-op in the morning rather than today. Jan's Mom, Dad and Sister are coming in this evening. The surgery will be an outpatient surgery, so please, do not send flowers to the hospital. Jan is in good spirits and has high hopes. Tyler is basically normal mode as we have played this low key with him and Jillian doesn't have a clue. We will only know a few things right after surgery, such as how invasive it is and if it has spread to her lymphnodes or not. The surgery may last 4 hrs. plus from our understanding. The oncology report and prognosis may not come for a few days until they get all the lab work back from the tumor and lymphnodes removed during surgery. In essence, we know she has it, we know there will be a lumpectamy and one or two lymphnodes removed tomorrow and that's about it. Thank you all in advance for your prayers and thoughts.
Bret
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We are praying for you and your family. I am so sorry you all have to go through this. I am waiting for that email or blog update that everything is ok now and I know it will be coming soon. God has a reason and a plan for you. It will all work out great according to his plan. Keep your spirits up girl. You have touched so many lives and made such a difference for so many people. There are so many prayers being lifted up for you. They will be answered. We are here for you. Sending all our love. Daren, Valerie & kids.
Dear Middleton Family,
You all are in my prayers. God will carry you through it.
If I can help with hotel rooms for your family/friends, please don't hesitate to contact me. I will do what I can. Sue has my email and phone number.
God Bless,
Barb Swift
Jan,
I just heard about your surgery. I just want you to know that you are in my prayers. I have thought of you so often since I left Lithonia and wondered how you were doing. I didn't know until Cathy just told me that you moved from Atlanta. I will watch for the update and will pray for you. Try to keep positive.
Take Care - Stacey Brock
Hello Jan and Bret,
I just want to reach through this computer and give you a hug! Mike, Kayla and I will have you in our thoughts and prayers for a quick recovery.
Love,
The Virags
Jan,
We are all pulling for you. You have been so strong through all of this--you continue to amaze me. Just know that I am here for you, whatever you need. I love you and I will see you soon. Annie
Jan:
You and your family are our family's prayers. Please keep us updated. I know you are going to be fine. If you need to talk or anything, please don't hesitate to call me! Us redheads have to stick together! *hugs*
Stephanie
Jan: Just heard about this. We're all thinking about you and praying for good news. Keep your spirits up.
Karen
Jan and Bret,
We are praying for you, and sending lots of love your way.
We are nearby and able to help with the kids. I mean it!
much love,
janie (and john, charlie and claire)
Jan - I'm here for you! I'm encouraged just knowing you and your personality and go after and get it attitude. I know we've had discussions on how attitudes make such a difference when facing life's trials such as this.... I love you girl! Will be seeing you soon.... Sue
Hello sis! You did great with this blog, wonderful idea!! I was so happy to help this weekend. I just wish I could take the pain and worry away for you. You know you are my hero and my best friend! You have the true redhead fight in you and I fully expect you to use it now! Please know I am here whenever you need me and I love you now and forever!! Kay, Dean, Amanda and Eric P.S. Remember, nothing but happy thoughts!
Jan,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything that we can do - please let us know. I think you are an amazingly positive and strong woman - keep the faith!
the Quinlans
Jan & Bret -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! If there is anything we can do to assist, please do not hesitate to let us know.
Stay strong!! Theresa & Willie
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